tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8505269165708086427.post9211551102156052485..comments2023-08-25T05:16:13.274-04:00Comments on Visibility Alert: Masculinity and 20-somethings: An Interview With StuRobert Vitulanohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12425744592379230279noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8505269165708086427.post-72985027300569837152010-08-12T13:41:09.260-04:002010-08-12T13:41:09.260-04:00I also discovered that a lot of young men are scar...I also discovered that a lot of young men are scared shitless — of women, themselves and their future; that, contrary to our cultural imaginings, they are just as desperate to figure things out as young women. I found that a lot of the pains in the relationships of us 20-somethings can be blamed on cultural prescriptions for masculinity. Yes, there is the stud-slut double standard — but there’s also an expectation that men, unlike women, will not seek safe harbor in a relationship. No, they are supposed to bravely sail their ships beyond the singing sirens and silted waters of their quarter life until they miraculously hit land in the Real Adult World.Visibilityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16940686074296063903noreply@blogger.com